so

i'm not gettin married this year but!
its because we ant to make sure we're not rushing thigns cause we both know we love each other enough to wait for whenever the right time is. :)

does happiness exsist?

this is a blog of a friends of mine and then the reply i wrote her that way in case anyone else is questioning this.




QUESTION/BLOG

I can honestly say that today has made the list of the "Top 5 Worst Days of My Life". It started out bad and only got worse. I have never been so unhappy. Ever. But this day has given me some wisdom.

I wish I could find a guy to hold me in his arms and tell me everything will be alright. And mean it. How hard can it be to find true happiness? But does happiness ever exist? What is happiness? To be truly happy is to want nothing more because you are more than satisfied with what you have. When do we reach a point where there is nothing left to want? But even those who have everything they want still want more. So does happiness exist? Or is it just an idea that can never truly come to be?

If anyone has an answer to this, please let me in on the secret. I’d pay to find out the secrety to true happiness. Also, if you believe that you hold the key to my happiness, please do not hesitate to tell me. If my Prince Charming is out there, let me know. Maybe that would lead me to true happiness. Just maybe, if such a thing even exists.








REPLY






i used to feel the same way you do. then i took a chance. and now i am the happiest i have been and will EVER be in my entire life. you just have to take a chance and dont hold any grudges. you have to be willing to let someone in even if you dont feel strong enough to handle all the butterflies and worries again. bc once you do. that person will see who you really are bc you allowed then to see you at your weakest, lowest...and from then on that bond will be so strong. you couldnt ask for anything more...bc theyre giving you their all. it'll happen...when you least expect it to. you just have to let it happen. you caint be guarded, caint let your past experiences jade you...you have to LET it be...life, regardless of religion, has its own mind. and if you dont live it, it wont happen...if you dont take risks and take chances youll never know how far you couldve gone...or who you couldve become. and you dont need ANYONE or ANYTHING to be happy. just you. just live. and itll come. destiny will come around, but if you dont give her a chance, she doesnt come back for you....and if she does. consider yourself lucky. so talk to new people. meet someone new. try a new food...join a DIFFERENT club! do something out of the ordinary that youve secretly always wanted to do...and see where it leads you. live with no regrets, grudges. and dont let anythign slide by because it might be your next biggest adventure. dont give up and do your best...when you do that. youll be happy and satisfied bc theres nothing more you have to take that life has to give and youll know your life is GREAT! and in the end...youll see that the troubles and the struggles make the best moments even richer and leave an even sweeter memory on your life.

My day. 2-14-2008 =]]]

How Was Your Valentine's Day?
-Mine was amazing!



I Hope everyone had the best Valentines Day Ever! Of 19 years of not having a Valentine, I figured out that it's not about romance. It's about that warm fuzzy feeling when you tell someone "I Love You". Even if it's just your friends. THATS what it's all about. Not soul mates, not true love. Although, it's special to have those on Valentine's Day. But what's better is the people that are there for you EVERY DAY. Not just that ONE day a year that they come out of their shell to be vibrant for a few hours then back inwards they go until next year. I find that those people are not really the special people. The special people are the ones that tell you everyday they love you, or show they love you. The ones that are there no matter WHAT holiday it may be. To them it was just another Thursday! THATS the kind of people I have grown to look forward to seeing on Valentines Day. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Todd with ALL my heart, but he's only been around this Valentine's Day. My point is, is no matter who you are, no matter what your "status" there is ALWAYS someone who loves you that can spend time with you on Valentines Day. It's a day for showing love all around, not just being IN love.



-Tushiebutt aka Erica

P.S. click the pictures below....they take you to money!!!! ha ha but really, they do take you somewhere to make money just by being a FRIEND!

Its Your Love

Life is great! Things couldn't be better! I am really close with all my friends, have THE best boyfriend ever, and I am expecting twin girls! I am so excited to see them! They are a part of the best of my life! Kya Bree & Krya Marie. I am so ready to see what they look like! I want to know their hair color, how tall they are, how BIG they are! Everything about them that there is to know! MY boyfriend, Todd, is the greatest. He makes me so happy. He is always there for me and does not judge me. He accepts me for who I am, no questions asked. I trust him with everything I am. He's also a great kisser!!! Haha My friends...where to begin. Some of them have always been there, and some really great new ones have come along. All in all, the love I get from all of them, is AMAZING. I wouldn't be as happy or as fortunate as I am, without all those important people in my life. My friends are always there, always giving advice; even if they think I'll get mad at them for it! Haha